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My divorce was just finalized last month. Wasn’t really “single” through the divorce period — was FWB involved. Now that the Ex and FWB are gone I feel that I can breathe and figure out where I want to be and who I want to be with. Not in a big rush to find someone…would be nice to have someone to hang with and do things with.
March 28, 2010 at 7:32 pm
BigLittleWolf — I agree; a committed relationship is very, very nice.
Don — Yes, Happiness comes from within and you’ll never find it in another person or a relationship. That said, we’re social beings, and we want to share that happiness, don’t you think?
Mindy — I hope you get happily hitched someday, too!
Mike — I think enjoying the ride is all we can do sometimes.
Steve — well, yes! It seems so easy, until …
Jim — With that kind of thinking, I just may come knocking at your door when I’m 70, and say: “Here’s the desirable babe you ordered.” Don’t finch, OK?
April — Well, if you’re coming from a bad relationship, I so understand that sigh. I sighed, too. And, you know, cried …
Dads — I have a feeling you won’t be alone forever.
Martini Mom — Yeah, I think you and I think alike. Being alone is better than being in a bad relationship, but being in a relationship is better than being alone. I really do love loving somebody, and being loved back.
Vincent — oh, yeah! Despite all the and stuff with the ex, the kid always makes us think, well, it couldn’t have been all that bad, because looky what I got! Yes, marriage takes a huge amount of compatibility and work and humor and flexibility and …